Saturday, September 6, 2008

In Search of 'THE LOST BLOG'


(version 3.1)
disclaimer:
the described issues are not necessarily harmful to society.
But, should at least be recognized.


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1) A woman can pretty much say whatever she wants, whenever she wants. 
(This verbal expression is an everyday reality. 
It does not necessarily pertain to the political arena). 
In everyday society, she's given the liberty to speak-her-mind.  


2) Plus, generally speaking,
people only say wonderful and positive things about women. 
(This is perfectly fine, ..... but still worth mentioning.) 


 3): many people bluntly say that it’s ‘actually’ the woman who controls everything. 
It suggests that it’s perfectly okay for her to establish control in a relationship.
Also, the term “control” happens to be a crude choice of words.
Perhaps, they should choose a more tactful description.
There's a great deal of courtesy which men display for their beloved partners.
Generally, the woman's interests are primarily emphasized.
Therefore,
it's quite childish to describe the female role as a position of 'control'.
You could very well say, that, she's highly regarded, with the utmost respect.
But instead, it's described as a form of 'female supremacy'.
 


   4) Every time people compare the genders,
they usually say that she has positive qualities which he is lacking thereof. 
For example: claiming that she’s more charitable. 
Or, saying that she’s a better person than he. 
Sometimes, you describe her as some sort of wonderful and caring person.
It's almost as if, you're suggesting that she's superior on the scale of humanity. 


5) But, ironically, you're always changing the story,
depending upon the circumstance.
Sometimes, you claim that women are more caring and nurturing.
While other times, you tauntingly use the “Amazonian Woman” dogma. 
And so-claiming that, she rules the world (for whatever reason). 
Basically, it doesn’t matter which path you choose.
Whether people insist that women are victims of an unjust society. 
OR, when people laugh because husbands are generally reluctant to argue against their partners.
 Or, anything in-between.
Either way, the world is always seen from her perspective.



 6)  She can walk all over me, and this is considered funny.  
Husbands are taught that they must Never stand up against their wives.
(This seems perfectly fine by any standard.
And virtually any man would be glad to accept these terms.)
More-so, it would be acceptable for her to become excessive.
This is considered chivalrous.


  7) There’s also dogma which says: women have the power to control his romantic impulses.  Yet, somehow, she doesn’t feel any desire whatsoever in return.
 


8) In all honesty,
there's a long-standing belief which states 'she's really the boss'.
Basically, during a relationship, she's entitled to boss their partners around. And society fully welcomes this idea.
It's considered perfectly acceptable.
On similar terms:
whenever a lady addresses her anger, her husband will not argue.
But, most still persist upon claiming otherwise.


9)The media claims that 'girls are more intellectually advanced,
whilst boys learn slowly.
Needless to say, it contradicts any existing notion that she’s wonderful, kinder and better cultured, etc. 
 
10) Men are severely insulted on a routine basis. 
However, even the smallest criticism would be considered insulting if it was directed against women, instead.   
Most ladies don’t realize how bad things are, unless the situation is reversed. 
For example: 
she would find it to be disturbing if the occasional television program criticized women, rather than men. 
Now, imagine how she would feel, if there were several talk-shows and magazines which brought males together. IT would be discouraging for her, to say the least.

 
 11) Within society, men are not given the right to speak out. 
It is socially unacceptable for a male to protest abuse,
no matter how severe the problem is.
Somehow, he’s not entitled to deserve better treatment, under any circumstance.
In some ways, we would be considered a weakling or a sissy.
  But, in all honestly, it’s a double-edge sword.
11b)Men show no interest whatsoever in defending their rights & dignity. 
Also, this idea reaches far beyond the political arena. 
Traditionally, men have no desire to challenge the wrongdoings of females. 
He’s always been too damned courteous. 
 


 12) Men are constantly victims of harsh insults, from the mainstream media.  But if he dares to express his concerns, people immediately try to stop him.  In other words: it really bothers a lot of woman when somebody attempts to contradict her.  For example: Some guy has just finished watching a T.V. sitcom which was clearly very biased against men.  Several minutes later, he briefly mentions this program to his wife.  Suddenly, she starts acting belligerent, just because he mentioned it. Ironically, She doesn’t necessarily approve of the Sitcom.  Or perhaps, she’s never even watched the program.  She may even be spiritually religious, or Ultra-Conservative.  But, in any case, she still doesn’t wanna hear him complain.  That’s the bottom line.  He can’t even say a few brief words.
 
 13 MEGA MEGA MEGA) It seems, everything imaginable is biased against men.  There’s the idea that girls are more mature than boys.  Plus, women are said to be more clever than men.  People also claim that -she has deeper emotions, and more complex feelings.  She’s considered to be much smarter.  He supposedly can’t use the left side of his brain.  It’s even more incredible that such stereotypes are not considered degrading.  People think it’s okay to make fun of the male anatomy.  And to make dirty jokes which are demeaning to men.  The male life span should be equal to that of a woman.  Yet ironically, prevailing dogma says that I’m a genetic defect.  Interestingly though, Male Mammals generally live slightly longer than females (providing they are not hunted).  One can only imagine the implications.  Also, this gap continues to rise.  Teenage male suicides rose 300% during the 1980’s.  the overall figures are 7 to 1.  Yet amazingly, the media teaches us that the problem afflicts women more than men.  (disclaimer: It would certainly be just as terrible if the victim was a girl.)
 

 
    14) Every legal case against men is handled by lawyers and case-workers who specialize in their perspective narrow-minded field.  Whether this pertains to Custody cases, or allegations of spousal violence, he’s surly not able to receive fair treatment from those case-workers provided to him.  PLUS, his very own lawyer usually cuts a deal without his permission.  The reason is because our media never exposes the issue. 
 
15) There’s also a similar issue.  Try to follow this:  ***Even when there’s no tangible bias committed by the media, their overall atmosphere is still quite discouraging to men.  So, they could offer no advice whatsoever on any specific issues, yet still give a total moral advantage to women. 
 
    
  17) Everyone tends to see things from the woman’s perspective.  She’s always considered to be ‘right’.  Plus, the man is expected to agree with her ideas.  This explains why the typical household is based upon her needs and interests.  Their shared activities also match the woman’s decision as well. Also, people tend to think that the man should comply with her wishes.  It doesn’t matter whether she’s right or wrong, or even if it’s totally unimportant.  She always wins. He always does whatever’s to her best interest. AND, most notably, this is considered the 'right' thing to do.  (Note: this is not such a terrible thing.  …But still worth mentioning.)
 
    18)  Hey Ladies: Just imagine how different your lives would be if every typical stereotype was reversed.  Here’s just one example: Supposing if women were historically accused of “treating men like “sex objects”.   She would find this to be insulting and demeaning to women. Plus, this would also make her feel vulnerable.  Indeed, you would find these stigmas to be quite humiliating.  Plus, you’d clearly sense a touch of arrogance on his part, to even dare suggest such a thing.  SO, why doesn’t the same rule apply when this nagging expression targets against men?  (Basically, No one has even considered the possible implications, if prevailing dogma was reversed.) 
   Also bear to mind, that the media is trying to force women into objectifying each other.   Once again, the media’s goal is to create social imbalance.
 
    19) Girls are taught to become overly-serious individuals.  Whereas, the male is never taken seriously.
 
20) Women are taught to enjoy their employment.  She constantly receives overall messages stating that work is a wonderful thing.  This gives an immeasurable advantage to her.  I’ve come to regard this as “Motivation Discrimination”.   Plus, she also receives a great deal of emotional support, as well.  It’s very unfair.  But also tends to be completely senseless.  Why would it be so damned important for her to be a robotic workhorse?  The media actually teaches women to work long hours, even if it means sacrificing her entire personal life.  What’s the point?  Basically, there’s always somebody trying to influence our lives. 
 
   21) Next paragraph:  Have you watched any television commercials lately?  Did you notice how many of these advertisements are totally insulting to men?  Whether they’re selling Cosmetics, Breakfast cereals, Soft-Drinks, legal advice, Theme Park Tickets, or, a new car.  For some unknown reason, they feel it necessary to mistreat men during the process.  And, to think, T.V. commercials are somehow controlled by the activists…. Just like everything else.
 
     22) Whenever there’s a disagreement between male and female, he must always see things her way.  And he’s not allowed to argue against her.  Also, people generally tend to see things from her perspective.  Basically: society tends to believe, that, the woman is never wrong.  Indeed: husbands never win, and women never lose.  But nowadays, this has become more politically charged.  Not surprisingly, serious issues always sway into her favor.  For example:  one minute…. the media promotes themes which literally claim that men are inferior, then, those same journalists claim that women are the victims of a ZILLION stereotypes.  This presents another serious issue of unaccountability. 
   
 
23) There are health-clubs (and what-have-you) around this entire country which allow female-only membership.  The undertones suggest that men are all a bunch of Niggers.  And he shouldn’t be allowed to walk into the same building.  There have been female-only restaurants, female-only trains, buses, and mention of enacting this upon every public area. And, by the way, this type of oppression is seeded in traditional ideas. This is another example of Female-arrogance. 
 Pardon my foul language, but that was the original post, exactly as written.

   24) It seems men never get a fair deal.  For example: when I ‘google’ search for a Men’s Organization, I am quickly faced with thousands of bogus groups which prevent me from locating the desired location.  Indeed, the Activists flood every industry with a totalitarian approach. 
 
25)  I stumble upon a website entitled, “Americans Are Being brainwashed”.  And I agree with that remark 100%.  But, as I began to download some 30,000 statements, I quickly began to realize that they were biased against men.  This should come as no surprise.  There wasn’t a single statement for the dignity of Father’s Rights.  Yet, I managed to find hundreds-of-sayings based solely upon narrow-issues, such as ‘female self-esteem’.

     26 MEGA) During my childhood, I could NOT wear loose clothing.  The reason is because the girls would always try pulling-down my shorts whilst walking in the school hallways.  Needless to say, the boys never did this sort of thing to the girls.  And some 20 years later, I still observe the same thing happening today.  My nieces, along with her friends, serve as a clear example of that fact. They often try this upon males, including myself. It’s all very degrading. Plus, their whole attitude toward this matter is very casual. You know, it's not considered to be any big deal.
 
    27) If you’ve plowed through family-photo albums, there are clearly more pictures of ladies & their circle of friends.  And often, you can’t even find a single photograph of the husband.   Then, you try to make him look stupid, by claiming that he’s a jealous and insecure man.  This rule applies to many different relatives.  In our family album, there are literally 7 times more photographs of our niece, than the two nephews combined. REALLY!
 
    28) Here’s an interesting point:  at the early age of 9, I noticed that a lot of women pretend to be much closer to eachother than they really are.  And their reason for displaying these friendships were primarily to showcase for the male observer.  Ironically, most ladies would barely get along together. But, they would display their friendships amongst themselves, merely for the sake of gaining an element of social inequality.  Okay, what’s the point?  It stands to prove that women tend to be naturally competitive against men, in every possible way.  It’s really that simple.  In contrast, a male is more likely to admit his preference for female companionship. He's willing to place himself into a vulnerable position. And, his friends fully support his decision. In fact, they encourage him to meet a special woman. And they naturally expect him to choose his female partner. His friends would even DEMAND it.
  
    29) From the time I was old enough to talk, I began closely observing the world around me. And I quickly noticed one of the primary forms of gender inequality: Bottom Line: Women openly demonstrate their lack of interest for men.  Almost as if, SHE WAS ADVERTISING THIS WHOLE IDEA. 
And, on similar terms, she would announce to everyone, that she didn’t really care about sex, either.  Why does she feel it necessary to emphasize numerous ideas which belittle men?  (Not just regarding any singular aspect toward love.  But, the entire subject of men in general.)  As I’ve said before, women are very competitive against men.  Plus, she’s always trying to prove something, whether political or social.  MORE IMPORTANTLY, she’s trying to destroy his self-esteem.  Plus, we must ask why she announces these things, for the entire world to hear?   Here’s the answer: Public Humiliation.

30) As a child, I can still remember listening to my mothers’ friends, who’d constantly mocking the subject of “sex”.  And they’d sit around; ‘belly-laughing’ like a bunch of big, fat pigs.  It was really weird for them to always talk this way, whilst in the presence of 9 year-old boys.  But, interestingly enough, these ladies would often take 90-minute showers. 
  
31)   Okay, the story gets even more hair-brained.  For decades, Ladies have always pretended that they don’t need intimate relations.  But nowadays, they finally admit to their desires.  Only to declare that ‘they don’t need to depend upon men for sex, anymore’. Which implies, that she has previously enjoyed this aspect. But, the man is no longer necessary. The usual taunts proclaim, “Ha-ha, she's now got Sybians & Sex Toys which now replace having a partner.  What the hell is going on, here?  First, you’ve always denied enjoying ‘it’.  But now, just when you admit responsibility for always having these desires, you now no longer need us.  Afterall, new “devices” have been invented which supposedly produce greater stimulus than reality.  This all stands to prove: there's an extremely abusive mentality burned into our standards of acceptance. And, it can be felt on a deeply emotional scale.
 

32) MEGA*MEGA*MEGA*MEGA (this is worth a million words)
Regarding the issue of Friendship:
Some people might ask, what about friendships between males, and “Boy’s Night Out”?  Isn’t that sexist? Here’s my response: They DO NOT flaunt the idea. Nor, are they trying to prove anything. Plus, their purpose together is ultimately to meet women, anyway.
 
    33) Society never gives a fair deal to men. Males are generally stereotyped as being immoral, even though Hippy Dogma has claimed to erase all judgements on sexuality. Their generation has removed all aspects-of-love from human sexuality. Thus, it would seem unlikely for them to condemn the male sexuality.

   34) Women are given the opportunity to take everything to extremes.  For example: I was at a family gathering.  And a few relatives actually brought Male-Strippers into the area, in order to entertain the ladies.  This is surely not appropriate for a reunion amongst elders and children.  I’m not necessarily opposed to the whole idea.  But the message is quite simple: She is given many social freedoms. SO, perhaps, she can be flirtatious with a male collegue without ever being accused of 'harassment'. Or, she can discuss her personal affairs amongst friends. Whatever the case, a man would definitely have to THINK TWICE, before doing anything.

35) Women are always trying to 'prove a point'.  Perhaps, she's announcing her plans to remain single. Whatever the reason, this is a typical verbal assault.  In contrast, men never display this type of repetitive behavior.  He DOESN’T waste his time agitating women. Plus, he's got too much respect for her to even consider displaying this type of condescending behavior. For example: how often does a man proudly proclaim that “HE doesn't need women”. This sort of remark is never spoken by any man. Yet, a large percentage of woman state this very same declaration.
  
36) Women have the right to distort the truth!  For example:  they claim that it’s Socially unacceptable for a lady to speak her mind.  In truth; Men are not allowed to say anything.  Also, he’s embarrassed to support Men’s causes.  He literally stays quiet about it. (most guys on Myspace Friends list prefer to remain anonymously involved.

37) Also, women can perjure themselves in courts..  In fact, she’s encouraged to do so.  Case workers earn a living by creating discontent.  Also, a woman can say nasty things & spread bad rumors against her boyfriend.  Nobody EVER condemns her for such vicious actions.   IN FACT, NOBODY EVER CRITICIZES WOMEN FOR ANYTHING, or any reason.
 
38) I’ve already stated in my essay regarding Psychological abuse:  The mainstream Media overshadows men with Geo-politics.  You can observe thousands of Forums throughout the internet. And, even when the topic has nothing what-so-ever to do with Feminism, the story often leads into this direction. For example: A Journalist was reviewing T.V. Sitcoms. And, within the 3rd sentence, she proclaimed that 'Men are feeling intimidated by the Woman's Movement'. On a recent forum, a discussion surrounded the topic of 'dating & relationships'. But, somehow, they also spoke a great deal about Feminism. Now, here’s a bizarre example: I purchased a video instruction guide for Lovers & Partners.  And, within the first 5 minutes, the narrator managed to promote 'Feminist’ themes. It's just plain ridiculous. Always keep this in mind, whenever an unrelated story-line steers toward feminist Doctrine. 

39)They claimed that our prevailing social standards repress women’s desires.  Those claims are totally untrue. Interestingly though, women's viewpoint is often regarded as fact. Thus, when she states an idea, her position is automatically assumed to be correct. 
PLEASE OMIT THIS) We’re all aware of those female-group sex videos which are treated as a unified anthem for women.  It’s so fucking ridiculous. 
 
40)  People will say everything which stands to make the woman “look-good”.  And, virtually every man supports this ideal. It's an example of high respect for women.

41)Psychologists should easily recognize the vast injustices which are committed against our adolescent boys. After-all, they are surrounded by a totally male-bashing environment. However, this evidence does not prevent her from theorizing that women should be given 'equal status'.  BASICALLY, you tend to believe whatever you wanna hear.  And it always works out to her advantage.  So, in this case, you’re teaching women to demand equal respect in a relationship.  Here’s my alternative: MEN should demand alittle respect.
Commentary: (each time women suggest a theory, there is never opposition. Thus, as usual, she's free to express her views, regardless of circumstance.)

 

42)    It just so happens: There are many examples of extreme injustice. This should eliminate any questions which may linger in your minds.  Let me discuss one such hidden epidemic: ------------typically, many ladies would NEVER wanna see another woman go to prison for ANY reason whatsoever.] ------- (There have been cases where a woman commits a terrible crime. Upon which, there’s immediate public outcry for her release.) One such case involved a group of supporters who didn't even try to make excuses for her.

43)    Women have the basic right to lash-out unfounded allegations.  The media never questions her actions.

44) She is the only spoken voice of society. Often, I remain silent & humble, just an any man should. Indeed, every man is expected to remain a gentleman.  But despite his willingness to listen, she still becomes outraged. Thus, men are accused of displaying “aggressive” or “dominant” behavior.  BASICALLY, she can fabricate an illogical combination of ideas, which often destroys my character.  This gives her every right to be the aggressor, whilst also accusing me of being a male-chauvinist pig.  Yet, all the while, I display gentility undeserving of her insults.  You might think this means very little.  However, she has unlimited power to analyze each move I make. 
 
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45 thru 55)     There are too many minor issues to even begin listing.  Often, no matter how hard a man tries to bring happiness to his beloved girlfriend, this is never good enough for her. ..... she never fully accepts him. ...... often pretends to be angry, for no reason whatsoever.... ....Women are generally hard to please, and make unreasonable demands..  .....Her partner always does whatever she decides upon.  .....Men are very kind and understanding toward the opposite sex.  In fact, most men want to give these privileges to women. Indeed, this is perfectly acceptable. And, she expects it, from him. However, it’s still a huge advantage for her-sake. And men are happy to oblige.
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56 )    Women have very strong sexual needs.  But, rather than fulfilling those desires, she attempts to establish control.   (Personal note: This seems to be her primary ambition in life.   During my earliest memories, I noticed how every female acquaintance  (such as: mothers, aunts, etc) would constantly talk about this narrow subject.  At this youthful age, I had no idea what “Sex” was, or what it meant.  But I already noticed that every female relative discussed this specific issue, frequently.  And they were driven to compete against men, in this aspect.  Please remember, I was only 4 years-old, at the time.  Yet, this fact was already evident to me. 

57)     Regardless of their malicious intent, Journalists & reporters are NEVER condemned for these actions.  Example: Newpapers often insult men, without ever being criticized for doing so.

57b)   Here’s an example of ruthless Journalism: We've all seen the vicious claim that “Men fear Women”. It looks very silly, when a news Anchor laughingly says that “I'm afraid of her success”. Is this really a valid headline? Hell No.

57c) It’s a very offensive remark.  BUT, as usual, the media is never held accoutable for their ‘wrong doing’.  Society says, it’s perfectly okay to make these types of abusive remarks against men.  Ironically, her constant smears against me suggest a hidden envious-jealousy. (in other words, I could easily reverse this insulting routine against you, instead.)

58)    REPRESSION --- The Media silences men, whilst women are allowed to speak loudly.  Plus, I’m never allowed to retaliate against her vicious attacks.  Yet, after all is said and done, they still claim that women are unfairly stereotyped.  The Media will then repeat this procedure, over and over again.

59)The media always manages to impose themselves upon us. Here's a more unlikely example:  I’m a huge fan of “Stuffed Animals & teddy Bears”.  But, while watching a program relating to this subject, the narrator suddenly began saluting “female entrepreneurs”.  

59b)Basically, there are two separate forces at work: in addition to the special recognition for girls, you also draw attention to this overall gender-based theme. However, even if there was no mention of gender, you’d still be giving “Indirect preference” toward her.

60 add-on)    Journalists often insult men, without ever being criticized for doing so. This practice was socially acceptable particularly in the 1970's & 1980's.

Chapters 61 and 62:




Chapter 63:

THE GRAND FINALE: I'VE STATED BEFORE; PEOPLE WILL ONLY SAY POSITIVE THINGS ABOUT WOMEN. AND, EVERY MAN IS QUITE HAPPY TO GIVE HIS HIGHEST REGARD.

THE GRAND FINALE 2: WHENEVER THERE'S A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN MALE & FEMALE, THE MALE GIVES HER A NEARLY DIVINE STATUS. HE ACTUALLY BEGINS WORSHIPING THE FEMALE AS A LIVING GODDESS.

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OMIT THIS SECTION:
1B) A woman can speak freely. And, if so desired, she could also lose her temper without being reprimanded. And people might even regard this as being humorous. She doesn’t have to play by any given set of rules.

1C) The woman is always supposed to 'win the argument'.
Normally, this is done peacefully & lovingly.
However, Occasionally, she's given the right to lash out, in a more direct manner. Perhaps, She could become verbally abusive toward her husband. Yet, it probably wouldn't seem bad or wrong.

Or, she can play psychological warfare games against him. In which case, people would probably think it was funny or cute.

Even worse, she could try to impose Mediacratic Dogma upon family members.
For example: she might read Women's magazines, while her children are present.
And, she then begins teaching them to follow suite.
Some Activists promote confrontations between relatives.
Society allows this type of confrontational behavior, instigated by Woman's Groups.
Whatever the case, nobody ever condemns her for these actions.


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